Last Saturday morning, my 16 year old son Alex asked me if we could go golfing. I thought it was great that he showed some interest, and we could use some bonding time. So, we went over to the local course near our house.
He has barely swung a golf club, so the first thing I did was taking him to the putting green. We worked on the 1 foot putt first. Now, this might seem boring, and it probably was to him, but I showed him the basics. I've read Dave Pelz putting bible cover to cover several times. So, I took the basics of this and applied it to the 1 foot putt. The nice thing about that is, you don't have to worry about aim just yet, only focus on keeping it all aligned, and work on tempo.
Next, I moved to the 2 foot putt. Here I dropped 3 balls and asked Alex to hit them using the basics I just taught him. He missed 2 of the 3. Ahh! Something to work on. I worked on making sure he checked alignment, aligned the markings on the ball with the hole, made sure the tempo was right, etc.. The whole time, confidence was there. He knew he could make the putts, and didn't feel intimidated by it. We made it as fun as possible.
Next, I moved back and showed him basic green reading. Just major slopes to start off with. Nothing about the grain of the grass or anything, just basic stuff. He picked up on that pretty quickly.
Next, we moved on to chipping. I told him that if he could chip to a close proximity to the hole, he could then finish up with the putt, and get up and down from the fringe. We worked on chipping and followed up each chip with a putt. I had him chip, then putt and see how many strokes it took to get in the hole. At first, it was 5 strokes, then it was 4. Before long, he got it in 2 strokes. We stopped on that one. Always stop on a good one! It builds confidence. Confidence is key.
Next, we did pitching. I first had Alex take each golf ball in his hand and underhand toss it onto the green. This gave him the feeling of pitching the ball. We did that a little bit to get a feel for how the ball reacted once it hit the green too. Next, we worked on getting the ball in the air and hitting the pitch shot. Once again, the goal is to pitch and putt in the fewest strokes.
Next, I worked on the full shot for a few strokes, just so he know how to do it with a wedge. We didn't aim anywhere specific, nor did we worry about distance. It was all about keeping your head from moving all over the place, and doing a full shoulder turn. He was getting it pretty quickly.
Finally, we worked on sand shots. We didn't aim for the green or any pins, we pointed the other way out into the rough area and just focused on taking some sand to lift the ball out. Basic stuff.
At the end of all of this, I thought my son would want to go home, but he didn't. We actually grabbed a bucket of balls and headed to the range. Here is the first time I started to focus about aim. I put a club down on the ground, aimed it, then showed him how to put his feet parallel to the club, and work on hitting straight shots. Distance would come later.
I think the first lessons worked out well. I look forward to teaching him more about the game. Maybe if you are reading this, you can try this approach with your son or daughter. Also, feel free to comment on my lesson with Alex.
Enjoy!
He has barely swung a golf club, so the first thing I did was taking him to the putting green. We worked on the 1 foot putt first. Now, this might seem boring, and it probably was to him, but I showed him the basics. I've read Dave Pelz putting bible cover to cover several times. So, I took the basics of this and applied it to the 1 foot putt. The nice thing about that is, you don't have to worry about aim just yet, only focus on keeping it all aligned, and work on tempo.
Next, I moved to the 2 foot putt. Here I dropped 3 balls and asked Alex to hit them using the basics I just taught him. He missed 2 of the 3. Ahh! Something to work on. I worked on making sure he checked alignment, aligned the markings on the ball with the hole, made sure the tempo was right, etc.. The whole time, confidence was there. He knew he could make the putts, and didn't feel intimidated by it. We made it as fun as possible.
Next, I moved back and showed him basic green reading. Just major slopes to start off with. Nothing about the grain of the grass or anything, just basic stuff. He picked up on that pretty quickly.
Next, we moved on to chipping. I told him that if he could chip to a close proximity to the hole, he could then finish up with the putt, and get up and down from the fringe. We worked on chipping and followed up each chip with a putt. I had him chip, then putt and see how many strokes it took to get in the hole. At first, it was 5 strokes, then it was 4. Before long, he got it in 2 strokes. We stopped on that one. Always stop on a good one! It builds confidence. Confidence is key.
Next, we did pitching. I first had Alex take each golf ball in his hand and underhand toss it onto the green. This gave him the feeling of pitching the ball. We did that a little bit to get a feel for how the ball reacted once it hit the green too. Next, we worked on getting the ball in the air and hitting the pitch shot. Once again, the goal is to pitch and putt in the fewest strokes.
Next, I worked on the full shot for a few strokes, just so he know how to do it with a wedge. We didn't aim anywhere specific, nor did we worry about distance. It was all about keeping your head from moving all over the place, and doing a full shoulder turn. He was getting it pretty quickly.
Finally, we worked on sand shots. We didn't aim for the green or any pins, we pointed the other way out into the rough area and just focused on taking some sand to lift the ball out. Basic stuff.
At the end of all of this, I thought my son would want to go home, but he didn't. We actually grabbed a bucket of balls and headed to the range. Here is the first time I started to focus about aim. I put a club down on the ground, aimed it, then showed him how to put his feet parallel to the club, and work on hitting straight shots. Distance would come later.
I think the first lessons worked out well. I look forward to teaching him more about the game. Maybe if you are reading this, you can try this approach with your son or daughter. Also, feel free to comment on my lesson with Alex.
Enjoy!